Hi I’m Alexa, mom of two, therapist and someone who doesn’t think loving your kids means losing yourself.
I love my kids. I also love dropping them off at daycare.
during maternity leave i looked forward to getting back to work and to my life.
i refuse to believe that motherhood means martyrdom or that women should be shamed for not wanting their kids to be their entire lives.
That's not a confession — it's just true, and it's exactly why I do this work. Because somewhere along the way, "good mom" got redefined as "woman who's disappeared into her kids," and I'm not here for it.
A little about my background:
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, CA License #102352 — verify it here
i have provided therapy for 10+ years and over 5,000 clinical hours
specific training in pregnancy and postpartum from Postpartum Support International
master’s degree in Counseling from California State University, Fullerton
bachelor’s degree from University of California, Santa Cruz
Here's what I actually help with:
Finding the version of motherhood that actually works for you. not everyone else.
identifying usable tools and support for the family stuff, the partnership shifts, the invisible labor, the stuff nobody prepared you for, the resentment and the endless mental load
On a personal level:
- boy mom x 2
- extroverted introvert
- bravo reality tv expert
- trader joe’s lover
- $9 iced lattes are my love language
My background is not in "general" therapy; it is a deep-dive into the reality of maternal mental health.
When you work with me, you aren't just getting a "mom who gets it." You are getting a Clinical Strategist who has spent ten years helping women navigate the most intense transitions of their lives.
You Don't Have to Navigate Pregnancy and Postpartum Alone.
If you are ready to stop performing and start regulating, the first step is the 10-Minute Vibe Check. We’ll discuss your specific pressure points and see if my strategic approach is the right fit for your goals. If you are a second time mom and interested in a coaching program please visit my coaching offering at SecondTimeMomCo.Com or by by clicking here!
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What makes you different from other postpartum therapists in California? I work exclusively with high-achieving California moms — women who are used to excelling at everything and are quietly falling apart inside. I don't offer a generic therapy experience. I specialize in the specific intersection of postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety, maternal burnout, and identity loss that high-performing women experience. My caseload is intentionally small so every client gets my full attention.
Do you take insurance? I am a private-pay specialist. I do not accept insurance, which allows me to maintain a restricted caseload and provide the focused, high-touch care my clients deserve. I provide monthly Superbills so you can seek significant reimbursement through your PPO out-of-network benefits.
What does a typical session with you look like? Sessions are 50 minutes, 100% virtual, and scheduled around your life — not the other way around. We don't spend time on small talk. We get into what's actually happening — the rage, the guilt, the overwhelm, the feeling that you've lost yourself — and we work on it together in a way that's both honest and practical.
Are you a mom yourself? Yes. I'm a mom of two and I understand the invisible weight of trying to do it all while feeling like you're disappearing inside. That lived experience shapes how I work and why I built this practice specifically for moms.
What is your clinical approach? I blend evidence-based modalities — including CBT, EMDR, and Motivational Interviewing — with a warm, direct, and practical style. I don't do passive nodding. I am an active partner in your recovery. We identify what's driving your symptoms, build real tools to manage them, and work toward sustainable change.
Who is your ideal client? My ideal client is a high-achieving California mom — often a professional, often someone who has always had it together — who is experiencing postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety, maternal burnout, or a deep sense of identity loss after having a baby. She knows something is wrong. She's ready to do something about it.
Do you work with moms during pregnancy too, not just postpartum? Yes. I work with women throughout the perinatal period — from pregnancy through postpartum and beyond. Anxiety, overwhelm, and identity shifts don't wait for the baby to arrive. If you're pregnant and struggling, you don't have to wait until after birth to get support.
What happens on the Vibe Check call? The Vibe Check is a free 10-minute call where we determine if we're the right clinical fit. There's no prep required. I'll ask a few questions about what's been going on for you, share how I work, and we'll both get a sense of whether working together makes sense. No pressure, no obligation.
How do I know if I'm ready for therapy? If you're asking that question, you probably are. Most moms wait until things feel unbearable before reaching out — but you don't have to be at your breaking point to deserve support. If you're feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, anxious, or like you've lost yourself in motherhood, that's enough. You don’t need to be in crisis to deserve support!
Therapy specializations include:
Support During Pregnancy
Therapy for the following locations throughout California:
